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Mar 31st

Godly Relationships

Promoting Godly Relationships, Civility, and Healthy Living

Opposing racism, vulgarity & obscenities, body & mind abuse (smoking, alcohol and drugs, etc.)

Introduction: While there isn’t one “Christian” lifestyle, there are certain pathways a Christian should aspire towards in life. God asks this of us for His own glory and our own good. In this section, we will first discuss topics of daily life, such as our personal relationships and civility, looking to the Bible as our guide. Then, we will turn to characteristics of negative lifestyles, such as racist beliefs and behavior, vulgarity and obscenity, and body and mind abuse (smoking, alcohol, and drugs). We hope God will speak to you about His plan for your life and how that corresponds to living a healthy lifestyle as the Bible describes. 

 

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Six Reasons Marriages Fail: Number 5: Religion

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      As noted in previous articles, Religion appearing as Reason 5 in this list of 6 Reasons Marriage Fail, does not pre-conclude it is the next to last reason marriages fail.

      If there are any constant themes in Scripture, one of them is to marry someone of the same belief. This does not mean, however, that a Baptist should only marry a Baptist or a Methodist a Methodist. The culmination of this teaching is found in 2nd Corinthians 6:14 which simply says:

      “Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers:  for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? And what communion hath light with darkness?”

      The Greek word yoked means literally to yoke up differently, that is, figuratively to associate discordantly.

      It has been said evangelistic dating is the worst kind of evangelism and the worst kind of dating. There are better ways of winning the lost.

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Six Reasons Marriages Fail: Reason 4: In-laws

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      It was stated earlier in listing six reasons marriages fail each failing marriage has its Number One reason. Listing in-laws as the fourth reason doesn’t mean it ranks in fourth place. It could be Number One in some marriages.

      I’ll launch this study with a question:  In-laws or Out-laws?

      The answer:  That depends on several things not the least of which is how long the couple has known each other, and do they know each other’s families?

      It is a sobering thought when engaged couples realize when they marry they are also marrying the entire family. Well, not exactly, but nevertheless a new relationship is entered into that encompasses more than just the couple.

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Six Reasons Marriages Fail: Reason 3: Sex

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      As previously mentioned, this section of our discussion pertains to behavior within the realm of marriage. In pre-marital counseling I teach that engaged couples can practice all the aspects of marriage while dating – except living together and/or having a sexual relationship.

      Overall we are looking at Six Reasons Marriages Fail. Thus far we have examined Role Reversal, Money and now Sex. We will conclude with In-laws, Religion and Life Dominating Sin.

      Like money, sex is not the most important aspect of the marriage relationship; but it is a barometer concerning what is going on in a marriage relationship.

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Six Reasons Marriages Fail: Reason 2 Money

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      The mere mention of the word money evokes a variety of thoughts and emotions in many individuals.

      The Bible is perhaps one of the most quoted and misquoted books ever written. For instance, it is often stated the Bible says money is the root of all evil - but not so.

      Actually, First Timothy 6:10a reads:  “For the love of money is the root of all evil.”

      Regardless of how money affects any person’s mind and emotions, money is one of the six reasons marriages fail.

      Money can be problematical in other types of relationships, but our focus on money is how it can affect marriages.

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Husband and Wife Role Reversal

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      For many years we were told the three problem areas in marriage were money, sex and in-laws.

      Study, personal observation and many years counseling has caused me to add three categories to this infamous trio:  Husband/Wife Role Reversal, Religion and Life-dominating Sin.

      When creating a list there must be a first item a last and those in between. Starting with Role Reversal and ending with Life-dominating Sin does not mean they rank in that order. Each marriage would have to be evaluated to determine the Number One problem area. Any one of these six might be at the top of a list.

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The Number One Source of Our Problems

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      We are the Number One source of our own problems – and this is the good news!

      If God were the Number One source of my problems I would not want to contend with an omnipotent, omniscient, omnipresent Being on a daily basis to ward off problems.

      If Satan was the Number One source of my problems I would not want to contend with an un-seen adversary who “as a roaring lion, walketh about, seeking whom he may devour.”

      Yes, other people’s poor choices vitally affect us, but even so, I would not want to contend with every one around me who is trying to control me and fit me into their mold.

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Satan is Alive and Well on Planet Earth

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      You may recognize this as the title of a book written by Hal Lindsay in 1977. It is. But the same arena is alive today as then – in fact ever since we were introduced to Satan in Genesis 3:1

      “Now the serpent was more subtle than   any beast of the field which the Lord     God had made. And he (the serpent) said      unto the woman, Yea, hath God said, Ye      shall not eat of every tree of the      garden?”

      Since Satan cannot be overlook as a potential source of problems, let’s look at the impact of this brief introduction to the most devious force known to mankind.

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The Third Least Source of Our Problems

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      In review, we have seen in two previous articles (here and here) that God is the least source of our problems; Satan is the second least source.

      This flies in the face of those who ask, in the face of problems and difficulties, “Why did God let this happen to me?”

      The response to this accusation against God is that He is the solution:  Christ is the answer.

      Blaming Satan by saying, “The Devil made me do it,” is easily denied by James 4:7:  “Submit yourselves therefor to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from thee.”

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Every Problem Has a Source and a Solution

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We will never be without problems yet we need never be without a solution.

      Shakespeare said it this way:  “Sorrows (problems) come not single spies, but in battalions.” Another truism attests:  The harder I try the behinder I get. And a still familiar lament from a past television series puts these words to verse:  “If it weren’t for bad luck, I’d have no luck at all.”

      Needless to say, perhaps we have all been there at one time or another; but we need never be without a solution.

      All problems come from one of four sources. We will look at these over the next several sessions because knowing the source of the problem will point us to the solution.

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First Biblical Ground Rule for the Family

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      During the next six lessons we will look at the detail supporting these Biblical Ground Rules. We will begin with a brief review of the following:

If we cannot agree we will not be disagreeable.

      Granted, this is sometimes easier said than done. We should expect a man and a woman to bring different perspectives into a marriage relationship. To be different is not necessarily to be wrong. Different can mean to be better.

      A husband’s perspective combined with his wife’s perspective can ultimately become their perspective. Genesis 2:24 re-enforces this conclusion:  “Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife, and they shall be one flesh.” That is to imply to be of one perspective.

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Six Biblical Ground Rules for the Family

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      The Number-one reason married couples come to New Hope Counseling Service simply stated is:  “We have a breakdown in communication.”

      Unless you are out of touch with the community around you, it is a known that the break down in the family structure has reached epidemic proportions.

      Although not playing the blame game through the following reminder, Scripture is clear that the husband/father is the Spiritual leader in the family structure. He, of course, is to be supported fully by his wife the mother of their children. Often times she is the primary parent exercising direct supervision over the children.   

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God’s Plan for the Family

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      Without a doubt, today perhaps more so than ever, the family unit is under severe attack. The Christian family, in particular, is under attack at times by so-called religious- based groups who ignore God’s plan for the family.

      The foundation of the family, as Christians know it to be, was laid in the Garden of Eden. We learn this from Genesis 2:24:

“Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife:  and they shall be one flesh.”

      Dr. Ed Wheat in his book, Love Life:  For Every Married Couple, says, “These twenty-two words sum up God’s entire teaching on marriage. All else that is said emphasizes or amplifies these three fundamental principles originated here, but never changes them in the slightest.”

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Petition for Impeachment of Attorney General Mark Herring

Petition for Impeachmentof Attorney General Mark Herring

As Virginians, we, the undersigned, believe our Commonwealth is entitled to be represented by an Attorney General who will not betray our Constitution by joining litigants in an effort to have its duly-adopted provisions declared illegal.

Our collective, informed decision to preserve the sacred institution of marriage in Virginia constitutes sound public policy and is supported by compelling legal arguments.

Under these circumstances, we, the undersigned, hereby call for the impeachment of Attorney General Mark Herring, who has chosen to actively fight against this Constitutional provision rather than fulfill his duty to defend it.

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